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WHY???

Everything seems so perfect from the outside. Happy faces, laughter and joy. But, how can we miss out on the subtle violation of basic rights that takes place on a daily basis? Don’t these very subtle little things create a huge impact someday?

The society that we are currently living in, if we keenly observe we realize that we as a society on the whole, lack very basic level of empathy, understanding and sensitivity! ( Now I am just talking about the society in general. I do agree and believe that there certainly are mature, sensible and responsible people who contribute to the betterment of mankind in every way possible)

Why don’t we understand that everyone’s fighting their own battle? Some are expressed and heard and some are not. So, when we start thinking from others’ perspective, we realize/ understand how it feels to be in their shoes. Having said that, it also becomes our responsibilty not to inflict our pain onto others. We should never try to project the bitterness we have experinced by our past truama onto others. Being sensitive to others’ personal issues while being responsible enough not to take an unduly advantage of our past bitter experiences is the key to living a meaningful life.

Here are few questions that we might have to ask ourselves everyday ( Self-introspection) :

Why don’t we understand that people take their own time and space to progess in their respective lives? Everyone’s journey is different and everyone follow their own path and it’s none of our business to bombard them with personal questions related to their job, career, marriage, pregnancy or the life choices that they make for themselves. Why can’t we stop meddling with others’ personal lives? Why??

Why do we think we are superior to the people younger to us? Why do we think we have authority over them? I do agree, we have to be there to guide them through and show them the right path ( very important) but that doesn’t mean we have the rights to curb their freedom and ability to make decisions for themselves. Scrutinizing them is entirely different from wanting to have control over their lives and making them feel entitled/obligated to us just because we are older to them. Our actual responsibility is to show them the right path and LET THEM BE THEMSELVES. We have to let people bloom and shine in their own way. Why don’t we understand this very basic thing? Why???

Why do we always have to comment on someone else’s physical appearance or judge them for their dressing sense? Why do we always try to instigate our moral superiority when it comes to people and their physical appearance. Everyone’s beautiful/smart in their own way irrespective of their complexion or body shape. Each and every human being is beautiful! Why can’t we just encourage people to accept themselves the way they are and respect their personal choices? Why???

Why don’t we understand that LIFE is not a set of rules and it has to be lived a certain way? We are all here to carve our own path and figure out our lives on our own. Why can’t we be less judgemental and more understanding?

Why can’t we be more sensitive and empathetic towards others’ and their personal issues? Why don’t we realize that we are NOT here to judge or correct people ( unless ofcourse, if they’re being harmful to the society, it becomes our moral responsibility to correct them).

And lastly, life is all about beautiful contradictions. And world is a mixture of people. By gaining an in depth understanding we become more open minded and less judgemental! Human tendencies are always there. But we must know when to speak our mind and when to keep things for ourselves.

I hope we all delve deeper into ourselves and introspect ourselves on a daily basis to create a healthy, positive, open minded and a carefree society.

P.S: I am not perfect either! All the above questions imply to me as well. Constantly working on bettering myself every single day!
These are just a few questions I’ve always had at back of my mind! Just felt these are worth pondering upon and hence decided to share it with y’all.

Love, peace and light💫

DERIVE IMMENSE STRENGTH, COURAGE AND RESOURCEFULNESS FROM DEEP WITHIN!

There comes a time in life when we all feel lonely and zoned out. There have been times when we felt like we are all alone and nobody would understand our emotions and feelings. We can shrug this thought by saying it’s a common human tendency to feel this way at times. Now, feeling lonely and isolated may seem completely natural. But what really matters is the way how we are going to deal with such feelings — loneliness or to be more precise the feeling of not being understood by others.

Everyday thousands of thoughts cross our mind. When we pay attention to them closely we will come to know where these thoughts are coming from and we ultimately figure out a way to differentiate between useful and useless thoughts. In the process of doing so, we may find ourselves at the crossroads completely confused. We start to feel the world around us is bizarre! We might start feeling that all the things, people and the atmosphere that surrounds us is absurd and weird. And, that’s when we have to know it’s the time to “look within”.

When we have nowhere to go, and no one to look out for, we must always remember to look deep within- The core of our existence, the reservoir of purity, resourcefulness and Peace. Whenever we come across unpleasant circumstances in our lives, we must always remember to turn inward and derive immense courage and strength and ask our Higher self to help us guide through.

Once we start consciously cultivating the habit of deriving the energy, strength and courage from within, we become more aware of our true powers and start utilising them for the right purpose. This happens only when we realise how powerful our Higher self is!

Our Soul/Higher Self always guides us in the direction. So, instead of being driven by Ego we must always be willing to listen to our inner voice/ intuition and choose the right path.

It’s easier said than done, isn’t it? Most of the times we get so caught in our thoughts, thinking what’s right and what’s wrong that we forget to pause for a moment and just relax. When we take a minute to look within, no matter how confusing or unpleasant the situation seems, we still somehow manage to muster all the strength and courage within us and face the situation gracefully. Though most of the times, things may not go as smoothly/ peacefully we’d expect it to be, at the end of it we still feel relieved because our inner voice says that everything happened for a reason and a strong feeling arises that everything’s going to be just fine! Or at least we will know how to deal with the situations resourcefully.

So, just to give a gist of the whole article:

Always delve deeper and deeper and look within for peace, strength and courage. Believe in our intuition/Higher self and always have pure intention, constantly work on bettering ourselves and always wish the best for others🙏✨

I hope all of us find strength and courage within ourselves and emerge as stronger version of ourselves and try to make this world a healthier and peaceful place to live in❤️

If you find this article relatable and helpful, please feel free to share your experiences ( where you have dealt with unpleasant situations all by yourself) , and of course your thoughts and opinions. Would love to hear from y’all.

Love, peace and light to all beings❤️✨💫